Getting Over the Break Up: How Do You Measure Up?
Did you know that men and women give rate in a relationship differently? Being armed with the knowledge of how the opposite sex does this is a key opportunity to have a very healthy and exciting relationship, and not only this, but also it helps you in getting over the break up successfully and easily.
Both male and female usually keep this unconscious “rating system”.
Men typically give higher rate to action if they count it as big, and they may even ignore small actions. Women usually give equal amounts of points to both “small” and “big” actions. I.e. it’s better to do big thigs for boyfriend to get more appreciation from him, but give frequent but small pleasant actions for woman to make her feel special.
Please digest this information thoroughly: it may sound like a premium-quality nonsense to your mind at this moment, but if you get it wrong or just skip it, you will lose the opportunity to change your whole “relationship” part of life for the better. But if you get the gist, you may make literally quantum leap and improve your relationships with your ex significantly. This by itself will give you an amazing chance of getting over the breakup happily and easily!
Let me give you a couple of examples to clarify my point!
Joe wants to please his girlfriend Julie, to give her something special that she’ll never be able to forget. He thinks like this:
“Okay, I’m gonna do something really big for my sweetie… Hmmm, let’s think… I’ll buy her a beautiful and fancy fur coat!”
And he does it. Of course, Julie is insanely excited to get such kind of present, and she truly feels special this day… And this week even. But! Joe makes a huge mistake by thinking that it’s enough for month, two months, three months… And he just stops acting towards Julie because he is mistakenly counting his big action as long-term pleasure for Julie. All after all, she gave him a lot of point for this fur coat, right?
Wrong!
Trust me at this point, almost 90% of women, in 90% of time will choose “small things often” instead of “one big thing for months”. That’s why it is much, much better to give her a small red rose one day, take a bubble bath with her next day, give her a surprising compliment next day, go out with her for a romantic dinner next day etc… is endlessly better than giving her one huge present (such as necklace, jewelry, car, expensive clothing etc) at a time and for a while.
On the other hand, when we talk about men it’s totally useless to give him a lot of small things and think that he will notice them and appreciate you profusely. You’re better off with something really prominent in his eyes, for example:
Hope this will help you to get more “points” out of your significant one by doing more significant things for them. Chin up and act now!
Both male and female usually keep this unconscious “rating system”.
Men typically give higher rate to action if they count it as big, and they may even ignore small actions. Women usually give equal amounts of points to both “small” and “big” actions. I.e. it’s better to do big thigs for boyfriend to get more appreciation from him, but give frequent but small pleasant actions for woman to make her feel special.
Please digest this information thoroughly: it may sound like a premium-quality nonsense to your mind at this moment, but if you get it wrong or just skip it, you will lose the opportunity to change your whole “relationship” part of life for the better. But if you get the gist, you may make literally quantum leap and improve your relationships with your ex significantly. This by itself will give you an amazing chance of getting over the breakup happily and easily!
Let me give you a couple of examples to clarify my point!
Joe wants to please his girlfriend Julie, to give her something special that she’ll never be able to forget. He thinks like this:
“Okay, I’m gonna do something really big for my sweetie… Hmmm, let’s think… I’ll buy her a beautiful and fancy fur coat!”
And he does it. Of course, Julie is insanely excited to get such kind of present, and she truly feels special this day… And this week even. But! Joe makes a huge mistake by thinking that it’s enough for month, two months, three months… And he just stops acting towards Julie because he is mistakenly counting his big action as long-term pleasure for Julie. All after all, she gave him a lot of point for this fur coat, right?
Wrong!
Trust me at this point, almost 90% of women, in 90% of time will choose “small things often” instead of “one big thing for months”. That’s why it is much, much better to give her a small red rose one day, take a bubble bath with her next day, give her a surprising compliment next day, go out with her for a romantic dinner next day etc… is endlessly better than giving her one huge present (such as necklace, jewelry, car, expensive clothing etc) at a time and for a while.
On the other hand, when we talk about men it’s totally useless to give him a lot of small things and think that he will notice them and appreciate you profusely. You’re better off with something really prominent in his eyes, for example:
- Buying him tickets to a big match (he’ll never forget it!)
- Granting him a fog-free shaving mirror (great thing! If he doesn’t have one)
- Getting a personal stainless NFL mug
- More ideas of great gifts – here: http://www.gifts.com/ideas/him
Hope this will help you to get more “points” out of your significant one by doing more significant things for them. Chin up and act now!
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