All people are a walking collection of unmet wants needs and desires.
And all humans have a deep desire to feel safe and appreciated.
People have been using these two simple but often overlooked facts of human nature for thousands of years to persuade and manipulate people, sometimes against their will, for personal, sexual, and financial gain.
If you are an honest person of integrity, then you can easily elicit somebody's criteria, what is important to them, and show them how you, your ideas, your products, even sharing your life can easily fulfill some of their wants and needs.
This is what goes on below the conscious surface of awareness when people meet and fall in love.
Each person feels that the other person satisfies many of their requirements.
When the feeling is mutual and lasting, it can lead to a lifetime of happiness and the creation of a family.
This is the driving force behind the reason there over six billion people on this planet, and growing rapidly.
However, just as this happens naturally everywhere in the world, and has been for thousands and thousands of years, it can easily be abused and misused.
All you have to do is find out what is important to another person.
What they want to get out of life.
What feelings are important to them.
Once these are discovered about another person, it is a fairly straightforward and simple process to convince them you are the answer to their prayers.
You can make girls fall in love with you, sell snow to ski resorts, and even be elected to political office.
All you need to do is understand how similar all peoples wants and needs are, and that people will go to great lengths to get them fulfilled.
Seduction skills are just like any other tool.
You can use them in a mutually beneficial way, so that everybody comes out ahead, or you can use them as you would a weapon.
To gain for yourself, while destroying others in the process.