Do you think things are not right in your marriage? All is not lost, there are things you can do to fix your marriage before it's too late.
There are a number of reasons that can cause a marriage to become broken.
The main cause of marital breakups is lack of communication.
There are many other reasons why a marriage can fail, children can play a big part with marriage problems arising, lack of trust, infidelity even money problems can cause problems within your marriage.
The first step is to think of the problem in your relationship.
Work out what the problem is, then you can both go about changing that problem.
This marriage can only be saved if both parties want to save it.
To mend the problems in your marriage will take loyalty and dedication from you both, it will be hard work, but it can be done.
You cannot fix this relationship on your own.
You both basically need to start communicating with each other again.
This does not mean talking about your day.
You both have to talk about how you are feeling at this very moment.
Be open with one another about how you feel why the relationship is like it is.
A good suggestion for you both is to write on paper what you feel is wrong, and what you both expect from this marriage.
The next step is to agree not to argue with each other whilst discussing what you have both written.
Criticizing and blaming each other will not fix your problems.
Always keep in mind why you are doing this, this is to save your relationship.
Do not interrupt your partner whilst they are talking, remember you will get your chance to talk.
Talking with your partner about the problems in your marriage will give you both a chance at dealing with those problems together.
Work together on finding a an answer to your problem which suits you both.
Try to stick to the new changes in your relationship, you do not want to be slipping back into your old relationship.
Start to show your partner how much you care for them.
Once a couple has been married for a few years it is so easy to fall into the trap of forgetting to tell them how we feel for them.
Remember back to the beginning of your relation, you would have told them daily what they meant to you, start doing this again.
Lavish compliments on your partner.
Let go of the past, to fix your marriage think about the future and how you are going to move forward together.
You have to let go of any hurt feelings that you have, you have now decided to stay in this marriage and give it another go.
Do not drag the past up, or it will cause more problems.
You might not get the chance to save your marriage the second time around.