In Love With A Female Friend? This Is How You Make Her Feel The Same Way
Unfortunately, guys get caught up in falling on love with a female friend and then wondering how they can make her feel the same way all of the time. What most guys just do not seem to get is, when you start off trying to be her friend first, that is usually where you are going to end up. Are there some situations where people start off as friends first? Sure, but that is usually a rarity and one of the reasons why it sounds like such a "romantic" idea. If you are stuck in the position of being friends with a woman you want to date, pay attention. There IS a way that you can turn things around for yourself.
Here are a few tips on how to make her feel the same way about you:
1. As soon as possible, you have to change the dynamic between you and her.
As long as that friendship dynamic is there and it is strong, then guess what? It's going to be next to impossible to make her start thinking about you as anything more than just a pal of hers. The longer that you wait to try and turn things around, the harder it is going to be. Worse come to worse, try and get some time away from her, so that when you do try and change the dynamic it does not seem so weird to her.
2. Don't apologize for flirting with her.
I've seen a lot of guys make the mistake of flirting with their friend and then taking it back by being almost apologetic about it. If you know what you really want, then there is no need to apologize. And if she acts a little weird at first, it might be just because it is coming as a surprise to her that you are flirting with her the way that a man who wants to be more than just buddies would.
3. Make your move or end up being nothing more than a friend forever, or until she gets a boyfriend.
It happens to a lot of men. They never make the move on a woman and they end up being just a pal for good, or they wind up getting "replaced" when she gets a boyfriend and she no longer needs all of that male attention. At some point, you do have to accept the risk that she may reject you, or else you will end up pinning away for her for years.
Here are a few tips on how to make her feel the same way about you:
1. As soon as possible, you have to change the dynamic between you and her.
As long as that friendship dynamic is there and it is strong, then guess what? It's going to be next to impossible to make her start thinking about you as anything more than just a pal of hers. The longer that you wait to try and turn things around, the harder it is going to be. Worse come to worse, try and get some time away from her, so that when you do try and change the dynamic it does not seem so weird to her.
2. Don't apologize for flirting with her.
I've seen a lot of guys make the mistake of flirting with their friend and then taking it back by being almost apologetic about it. If you know what you really want, then there is no need to apologize. And if she acts a little weird at first, it might be just because it is coming as a surprise to her that you are flirting with her the way that a man who wants to be more than just buddies would.
3. Make your move or end up being nothing more than a friend forever, or until she gets a boyfriend.
It happens to a lot of men. They never make the move on a woman and they end up being just a pal for good, or they wind up getting "replaced" when she gets a boyfriend and she no longer needs all of that male attention. At some point, you do have to accept the risk that she may reject you, or else you will end up pinning away for her for years.
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