It's the last thing in the world you ever wanted to ask yourself. Namely how to find out if your spouse is cheating. Things had been good between the two of you for as long as you can remember.

You never took it for granted but the trust factor as far as you are concerned was never an issue. It was just one of those things that was understood and accepted. You were holding up your part of the marriage contract and until recently you figured your significant other was doing the same thing.

But it was only recently that suspicion started to crowd on your thoughts a lot more than you wanted to admit. You think your spouse is cheating but are not sure if it is true or you are just overreacting. Hopefully it is the latter but there are certain things you may want to pay particular attention to.

1. Communication Breakdown

Your spouse maybe one of those who does not do a whole lot of talking but it was clear that the two of you did have lines of communication which were open and available to each of you anytime. Now you can't help but notice it has all but disappeared. Why?

2. Time Away

To make ends meet in this day and age it is almost essential for both spouses to work a nine to five job. That means time together is not going to be exactly what you want it to be. But as you see it their time away from you is increasing more than it already is. They tell you that it's the job but from where you stand it doesn't seem to be reflected in their paycheck.

3. What Was That All About?

Any marriage is going to have its share of bumps in the road. Two people living under the same roof are not going to see eye to eye on every single topic. However those bumps in the road seem to becoming more common. They also come out of nowhere. An argument breaks out and gets pretty intense. After it's over you have hard time figuring out why it happened and why it has been happening on a more regular basis.