Time heals most pains - no matter how traumatic it might have been.
In case there have been some painful exchanges between you and your wife in the past, you can still make your wife fall in love with you again, for a very simple reason - she is still your wife! Here are some quick tips to set the ball rolling.
First of all, do some introspection and try to analyze your interactions with her.
Do not always look at situations with your viewpoint; try to feel what she must have felt at what you said or did.
The second job is to walk back further down memory lane and remember the issues that normally used to trigger fights and misunderstandings.
How has the relationship fared during all these months or years? What are the things that you are doing now that you used to do differently in the past? Think of the kind of attention that you used to shower on her when you both got together for the first time.
Are you as attentive now? Then think of the time you kept, to be with her and her alone.
What is the situation now? Are lunch's together rare and dinners or cozy chats after dinner even rarer? Understanding the woman's mind is critically important to you right now.
Remember, most women keep their anger and frustrations to themselves.
They may have a thousand things to tell you about the hurt you are causing them, but hardly ever mention even one of them.
You could say that internally they are building their own mountains of hurt and pain.
The key to solve most inter-personal problems lay with effective communication.
It is highly likely that both of you have clammed up for no apparent reason and now the load of untold miseries in the mind has turned unbearable.
Break this impasse, and start talking frankly and openly about mutual misgivings.
This way you would know what exactly she is going through and this can in turn help you mend your ways.
To make you wife fall in love with you again is then only a hug and a kiss away.