They say, "Every man's success is a woman in his side.
" True, but also true in reverse.
Support matters because it boosts your spouse's confidence.
A simple pat on his/her back can be an act of support.
Encouraging words are more enforcing.
You can also support your spouse by giving him/her time and space, needed to come up with decisions.
You can have him/her skip some family chores for your spouse to have more thinking time.
You can cook meal or prepare coffee while he/she analyzes the problem.
When choosing the final decision, you can point other pros and cons of the choices she will take.
Supporting your spouse's decision can boost his/her confidence because it both affirms his/her analytical ability and the decision he/she made.
Any decision, if supported, carries no apprehensions because someone has affirmed it.
Support can also be an early driving force to your spouse in analyzing the best insight, decision, and results.
Such support will let her brain works and make best judgment.
Support adds self-worthiness and right pride on your spouse.
It will attest that he/she can do eventually tackle any difficult decision.
Therefore, no man is an island.
We certainly need another human being to make good choices.
A good laugh or smile can convey support.
It can lighten the burden of making the best decision and achieving the desired outcome.
Of course, any struggle can be easy when shared with someone.
Support can also be in the form of your suggestion.
It expands the choices of decisions your spouse will take.
Every suggestion can upgrade his/her insights on the problems that need solution.
Moreover, a supported decision is an unbiased decision.
A true interest on your spouse's analysis and decision can build connection between you and your spouse.
A hand that reaches to your spouse when he/she needs it is a great relief! Surely, it merits the mind and relationship.
Lastly, any support makes your spouse feel important, interesting, and dependable.
He/she will know that he/she can make a difference.
Most important, your spouse will know he/she has someone to lean and get inspiration, help, and better judgment.
It does make two to tango.