One of the hardest things that can happen to a person in life is to fall in love with two people.
These are potentially two partners that you could see yourself living the rest of your life with.
What a position to be in, and its one that is surely playing havoc on your emotions.
Eventually you are going to have to make a decision, otherwise you could end up losing both of them.
The situation may be totally different if you are a man that has fallen in love with two women.
For women it seems more difficult to deal with this situation, and in many ways needs to be handled differently.
The toughest part of all will have to be to determine what is love? This is a question that nobody seems to be able to answer.
The reason for this is because love is such a precious thing in life its like your soul, its individual.
Love is different to every single person.
That's why when you truly fall in love you just seem to know.
So having said that what has happened to you that you have fallen in love with two men? You may want to start by realizing that there is such a thing as loving someone and being in love.
The easiest way to explain this would be that you absolutely love everything about man "A".
He makes you feel good just to be around.
Whenever you know you are going to be in his presence you feel upbeat and happy.
You love man "A".
Now the same applies for man "B", but there may be just something a little bit different here.
You have all the same emotions when you are in his company but they seem just a little bit deeper.
The memories last a little bit longer and you may look forward to being in his company a little bit more.
There is a little bit of a deeper feeling inside you that you may not be able to explain, or are just not aware of yet because you haven't looked for it.
Here I would say that you are "in love" with man B.
Simply put man B has gone just one tiny step ahead of man A.
If you are not able to sort our your feelings, and all else has failed, then you may need to take a simple logical approach to your problem.
When you get up in the morning imagine that both man A and man B will be coming over today.
Think about man A and write down all the feelings that are being stirred up within you.
When you have them all written down, then take a half hour break and now do the same thing for man B.
Take another break and compare the two lists.
See if there is anything about them that surprises you or brings to mind something you may not have realized before.
This is your starting point of separating the two men in your life.
You may have just discovered which one of this is going to take the role of being a very dear friend leaving the other as the man of your dreams.