Talking to guys can bring up nervousness in girls; it is a very obvious thing to happen amongst most women.
There may be times when you might feel like because of your anxiety and shyness, things might not be working with your guy.
However there are ways to bring in the required confidence in you when you approach a guy.
It is not that hard of a task to talk to guys.
Though you might be worried about how they would react when you approach them, would they think of you as a stupid girl or a lame thing! But if you sit and let the negativity pour in then you might not get anywhere close to asking the guy out.
The following tips might just come as an aid when you find yourself in such a situation.
Appreciate his gestures When you hang out with a guy, his gestures should be appreciated, irrespective of whether they were good or not.
You cannot have expectations with the guy in the first meet itself, but if just happens to make you feel happy and make you laugh then it is something remarkable on the guy's part.
Even if the joke is awful, fact that he tried should be appreciated, a slight laughter can make him get the sense of confidence that he has done a bit to impress you.
Questions should be answered and asked It should not be that only the guy is asking all the questions, make sure even you put in your effort and ask him back few standard questions like his favourite sport or his favourite T.
V.
show.
If you do that you can curb your nervousness as well that comes in when you are asked questions and at the same time the guy will feel like you are interested in knowing about him too.
He might love this thing about you and that could get him to know more about you.
Let the conversation to flow from both the ends When the conversation begins and when the guy is the highlight of the discussion then it is like the best thing that could happen on that date as guys just love to rave about themselves and discuss about their passions, likes and dislikes.
However they do hold a lot of in depth information and discuss just what is on the surface as they do not like to be asked or to discuss something that is personal.
You can hit it off with asking what he does on weekends and whether he is raising a pet.
They enjoy such conversations and if you have a common interest then that comes across as a cherry on the cake, it will give more excitement to the conversation and you wouldn't even know how the time passes by.
With the above mentioned information, things can be made simpler than what they were for you.
All what you got to do would be face it with some confidence and hopefully all will go well.
Good luck!