Thanking Your Spouse
At times, we have a tendency of taking things for granted.
We thank all and sundry but not the most important person in our lives who add colors to it.
The person most neglected is your spouse.
Although we expect him or her to stand by us through thick and thin yet we forget to recognize the contribution made to our lives.
This at times get too far and takes a very ugly situation whereby the concerned person starts feeling neglected.
This starts affecting your bondage and no amount of adhesive can bind it strongly.
We all do it in our lives.
We only start realizing the impact when we feel that the person whom we thought to be ours is slowly but surely drifting away.
The big ego in us don't want us to accept this reality.
We keep pulling on and on hoping where would the person go who is all yours for ever.
It is only when the irreparable harm is done than we feel cheated.
I don't think anyone of us realise how we contributed negatively towards it.
I feel the person who contributed so much to our lives in terms of money, emotions, love, affection, kids, house etc needs to be given the kind of recognition the relationship deserves.
Not doing so,would impact the adhesive in our bondage and destroy the very fabric of our relationship.
All human beings aspire for love and recognition as it is quite a natural phenomenon.
It is a sin to take it for granted for ever.
Finally, how to do it and in what way? I think all of us have the answers to it and they are quite normal and simple.
An occasional romantic sweet note into the ears of your spouse like"Thanks for coming into my life and contributing so heavily towards family bliss" can do wonders for your relationships.
I think such things if done with style and sincerity can please your spouse like anything.
No amount of money can do such wonders.
It can rejuvenate your family life and make it a real blissful one.
Occasional, "I love the way you have handled your responsibilities" is another one apart from the usual"I love you".
Be original and sincere while looking for love notes.
Believe me you would feel the difference by doing so.
Give it a try and let me know the results.
Bakshinder
We thank all and sundry but not the most important person in our lives who add colors to it.
The person most neglected is your spouse.
Although we expect him or her to stand by us through thick and thin yet we forget to recognize the contribution made to our lives.
This at times get too far and takes a very ugly situation whereby the concerned person starts feeling neglected.
This starts affecting your bondage and no amount of adhesive can bind it strongly.
We all do it in our lives.
We only start realizing the impact when we feel that the person whom we thought to be ours is slowly but surely drifting away.
The big ego in us don't want us to accept this reality.
We keep pulling on and on hoping where would the person go who is all yours for ever.
It is only when the irreparable harm is done than we feel cheated.
I don't think anyone of us realise how we contributed negatively towards it.
I feel the person who contributed so much to our lives in terms of money, emotions, love, affection, kids, house etc needs to be given the kind of recognition the relationship deserves.
Not doing so,would impact the adhesive in our bondage and destroy the very fabric of our relationship.
All human beings aspire for love and recognition as it is quite a natural phenomenon.
It is a sin to take it for granted for ever.
Finally, how to do it and in what way? I think all of us have the answers to it and they are quite normal and simple.
An occasional romantic sweet note into the ears of your spouse like"Thanks for coming into my life and contributing so heavily towards family bliss" can do wonders for your relationships.
I think such things if done with style and sincerity can please your spouse like anything.
No amount of money can do such wonders.
It can rejuvenate your family life and make it a real blissful one.
Occasional, "I love the way you have handled your responsibilities" is another one apart from the usual"I love you".
Be original and sincere while looking for love notes.
Believe me you would feel the difference by doing so.
Give it a try and let me know the results.
Bakshinder
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