My Tips For Dating
The first difficult part about dating these days is first finding someone to go out with.
That's something that I've noticed is getting harder and harder for all of us.
The reason for that I think is because we tend to have so many preconceived notions about the type of person we want to go out with.
We're overly concerned with their image, the cars they drive and how that speaks to their wealth or their personality and so on.
It's easy to say that this tendency is a result of the things we read or we watch on TV.
But although understandable, that's the cheap way out (it is after all, not the easiest of things to go against the flow).
The question is how do we change that? The first tip for dating is simple - maybe not easy, but simple.
Gather up the courage and be yourself.
Practice being yourself every day when you have the opportunity.
Instead of worrying about being different from others, enjoy knowing that you are unique and that you bring variety to this beautiful world.
Once you get to know who you are, it will make it a lot easier to pick someone with similar values, regardless of their stature in society.
Another good tip for dating is to live in the present moment.
For example if you are in a bar with a friend and look for the future (which is to meet somebody) you are going to be spending all your time looking around trying to find someone to meet.
As an alternative, try enjoying spending time with your friend and have a good time.
By living in the moment and feeling happy and comfortable, you'll bring a sense of self confidence that will radiate from your being.
And guess what? Good confident energy is a big attraction! Before you know it, you'll be attracting the right kind of people for you.
So remember, always be yourself and live in the moment.
Discover the magic of being you with no fear.
Remember that there is only one you, and that makes you special.
By living in the present you'll not only attract better people for you but you'll also enjoy the ride a lot more.
Relationships are a marathon and when you're looking to find someone to date, you're just getting started.
Don't worry about the finish line just yet.
That's something that I've noticed is getting harder and harder for all of us.
The reason for that I think is because we tend to have so many preconceived notions about the type of person we want to go out with.
We're overly concerned with their image, the cars they drive and how that speaks to their wealth or their personality and so on.
It's easy to say that this tendency is a result of the things we read or we watch on TV.
But although understandable, that's the cheap way out (it is after all, not the easiest of things to go against the flow).
The question is how do we change that? The first tip for dating is simple - maybe not easy, but simple.
Gather up the courage and be yourself.
Practice being yourself every day when you have the opportunity.
Instead of worrying about being different from others, enjoy knowing that you are unique and that you bring variety to this beautiful world.
Once you get to know who you are, it will make it a lot easier to pick someone with similar values, regardless of their stature in society.
Another good tip for dating is to live in the present moment.
For example if you are in a bar with a friend and look for the future (which is to meet somebody) you are going to be spending all your time looking around trying to find someone to meet.
As an alternative, try enjoying spending time with your friend and have a good time.
By living in the moment and feeling happy and comfortable, you'll bring a sense of self confidence that will radiate from your being.
And guess what? Good confident energy is a big attraction! Before you know it, you'll be attracting the right kind of people for you.
So remember, always be yourself and live in the moment.
Discover the magic of being you with no fear.
Remember that there is only one you, and that makes you special.
By living in the present you'll not only attract better people for you but you'll also enjoy the ride a lot more.
Relationships are a marathon and when you're looking to find someone to date, you're just getting started.
Don't worry about the finish line just yet.
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