LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP : RIGHT OR WRONG
Is living relationship right or wrong ,this is an interesting question .Many feel it is correct and many feel the otherway. All have their logic and viewpoint and they all are correct upto a certain exent.
Many people say it is good but why ?There is a simple answer we cannot marry someone only because we like some of his/her qualities .Marriage is a life long commitment and we need time to decide that the person we have choosen is right or not.Every relationship requires time and we must give ourself enough time to decide our soulmate.I want to ask a simple question from our society that what is wrong if two people who likes each other lives together ,it gives them the proper time to decide whether that person is suited to him .living together without marrying cannot be termed as a crime ,,,,,sorry but if we continue to show our disrespect to the people having live in relationship ...we will be nothing more than a hypocrite .The people who have such kind of relationship are mostly more happier than the so called married couples who are not satisfied with their partners .Nowadays there are more divorces between the newly married couples ,the reason for most of these is the issue of incompatibility. Most of the people having live in relationship marry after sometime and lives a happy life much more happier that those married couples having incompatibity issues.
But is it always correct to justify these type of relationship.The answer according to me is yes .
Many of us will feel that morally live in relationship is not correct and they may be right because
If we don't marry the person with whom we are living then sometimes situation can be very worse and it can even ruin our lives but if we are strong enough we can come out of that.
We Indians always respect our parents and our society and most of us can't go against them and it is a quality which should be appreciated but we should be given freedom to decide about this aspect of our life.
Many people say it is good but why ?There is a simple answer we cannot marry someone only because we like some of his/her qualities .Marriage is a life long commitment and we need time to decide that the person we have choosen is right or not.Every relationship requires time and we must give ourself enough time to decide our soulmate.I want to ask a simple question from our society that what is wrong if two people who likes each other lives together ,it gives them the proper time to decide whether that person is suited to him .living together without marrying cannot be termed as a crime ,,,,,sorry but if we continue to show our disrespect to the people having live in relationship ...we will be nothing more than a hypocrite .The people who have such kind of relationship are mostly more happier than the so called married couples who are not satisfied with their partners .Nowadays there are more divorces between the newly married couples ,the reason for most of these is the issue of incompatibility. Most of the people having live in relationship marry after sometime and lives a happy life much more happier that those married couples having incompatibity issues.
But is it always correct to justify these type of relationship.The answer according to me is yes .
Many of us will feel that morally live in relationship is not correct and they may be right because
If we don't marry the person with whom we are living then sometimes situation can be very worse and it can even ruin our lives but if we are strong enough we can come out of that.
We Indians always respect our parents and our society and most of us can't go against them and it is a quality which should be appreciated but we should be given freedom to decide about this aspect of our life.
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