How do you play that cat and mouse game of calling men? What rules do you need to know so that you don't look desperate or turn him off? Do the same rules work for all guys? Deciding how and when to call a man can be very tricky; but, there are some basic guidelines which are invaluable in helping you make your decision.
Keep reading.
First and of ultimate importance - always, always let the guy make that first phone call.
There are so many reasons why this is so very important.
If you start calling a guy before he is ready to do the "first date call back," you will certainly give an unpleasant impression.
He is just not ready to jump in yet; and, you look utterly desperate and needy.
Also, guys really, really want to be in charge of kicking off a new relationship.
It is necessary for their ego that they make the decision of how and when they make the follow-up contact.
If you jump ahead, you have denied him the satisfaction of making the manly decision to pursue you.
This is the number one rule of calling men - let him go first.
There are also a few more thoughts to keep in mind when he finally does call.
Do not let him know how relieved you are, nor should you jump to answer the minute you see that he is phoning you.
Once again, the impression of desperation comes into play.
Make him wait.
Do not immediately answer; and, give yourself a few hours before you return his call.
If you can manage to do this, you will now have the upper hand.
He is left to wonder whether you are interested and if you will be calling him back.
Enjoy this peace of mind while the worry shifts to him.
This is all you need to know in the game of calling men.
Follow these suggestions to keep the upper hand; it is so much better than being worried all the time.