Do you understand men well enough to know what guys really want? Is everything that he says what he really means? If you think that you have trouble reading your guy then you are like many women today.
Sometimes it is difficult to know the difference between what guys say and what guys really want.
Read on to learn some tips to find out how to do just that...
First, forget thinking that a guy is just going to come right out and tell you want he wants in every situation.
In fact, hardly anyone in this world even knows themselves well enough to do that.
It is part of the human condition to act in ways that are actually NOT in conjunction with our own desires.
For instance, you may already know a guy who is always going on and on about how he will not settle for less than the most independent, intelligent, and ambitious woman.
But then he turns around and chases after girls who have none of those qualities because he falls for the way that they look.
There is no getting around the fact that men are very visual; they love to be with a woman who they enjoy staring at.
But this does not mean that you have to be a supermodel to get the man that you want.
You should however, learn how to appeal to his senses by always looking your personal best.
Even if he does seem obsessed with look, in the end guys really do not want to be spending all of their time with women who are negative or have sour attitudes.
So always show him how positive you are and make the times that you two spend together fun.
He will start associating the great feelings that those times give him with being with you.
Finally, you have to be able to distinguish between what guys really want and what they say they want sometimes when it comes to commitment.
Men are taught to believe that commitment will end all of their fun.
But in reality, everyone wants to be secure and to know that the person that they are with loves them and only them.
It may take him longer, but that is where he wants to be with the right girl too.