If you would like to get your ex girlfriend back, and are willing to put in the time that is needed if she is the one that called it off, then you can be successful in getting her back.
Women are driven by emotion and if you really want her back, she needs to know with confidence that you have changed and can meet her emotional needs.
Getting your ex girlfriend back will take some time, but you can do it if you are willing to show change and a willingness to meet her needs.
Your first step is to contact her either via Facebook, text, or a call.
Be calm, be cool and listen to everything she has to say.
Be attentive.
This will help you to gain her respect and show her that you are already beginning to change.
This is not a time for pointing fingers.
This is a time for listening and showing change.
Don't hide how you feel about her.
Women like to know exactly how you feel.
And even more so when you are trying to get back together with her.
Don't become "clingy" or lay everything out on the table at once, but give her cues that you desire to get back with her and that you have made the necessary changes to make this work.
Show her, don't tell.
Being attentive and flirty will go along way with getting back with your ex girl.
She will feel wanted, respected, and flattered.
Also use this time to get back into shape.
This will help the flirting have more impact and make you more irresistible.
Keep this routine up even after you get back with her.
The first couple of days back together and even the ensuing weeks and months are a proving ground and opportunity to show yourself as being worth it and that she didn't make a mistake.