There are some secrets to human nature that bind everyone, even you and me. These things can be so powerful that it's a little scary how effective they are. If you want to get your ex back at some point you're going to have to talk to her, which means getting her to return your calls. Here's how you can do that, using one of these secrets of human nature.

You see, there are two things that just strike a chord in us and get us to take action. Above all else, these can get our attention and draw us in. These are what your phone call need to have:

Curiosity and Self-Interest.

That's relating to your ex, not you...you have to appeal to her curiosity, and directly relate your call to her self-interest. That may sound a little tricky at first, but it's easier than you may think.

The following couple sentences are a basic example of a phone call that employs these two ideas, to such a point that your ex will have almost an impossible time resisting the urge to call you back. You ready? Here it is:

"Hey Katie, it's me, Mike. Listen, I just wanted to thank you for what you did. It really helped me out, and if you'd call me I'd like to thank you in person."

That's it...that right there is powerful stuff that's going to push her to pick up that phone and give you a call to see just what it was she did that helped you so much. Using this tactic will break down the barriers between you and get you talking face-to-face and give you the opportunity you need to win her back.

Wait though, don't go running off to make this call just yet...there's some planning involved and there are a few more things you need to know before you do this, or you could easily be making a huge mistake that'll actually take this call and turn it around against you. It's not hard to get your ex-girlfriend back, but you'll need to know a few things. You can get started by checking out some of the free videos and advice