You have waited for nine months, and the day has finally arrived.
You hold that little person in your arms and wonder what the future hold for e two of you.
No doubt you have been reading books and listening to advice on being a Dad, but there is no greater teacher than experience.
Now is your chance.
There is no one perfect way to be a Dad.
Your unique personality ensures that you will be a unique Father to your little son/daughter.
However, perhaps you would like to know some things to do that will help you on your way.
The following list is intended to give you that direction.

1. Take a breath and relax.
   You have a lifetime to be a Dad.
   Don't get overwhelmed by trying to do it all today.
   Accept the fact that you will make mistakes.
   That is part of learning.
   
2. Take the opportunity to experience every part of Fatherhood in the first few days and weeks.
   Babies change quickly in the first couple of months.
   You may not know what to do wi a little person who can't walk, talk, or feed itself, but that's okay.
   Learn to change diapers, give baths, feed, burp and the dozen other things that need doing.
   It is a tremendous experience to take part in the care of your child, and it will help you to build a bond with them in those first couple of months.
   
3. Talk to your baby often.
   Your new son or daughter will probably want to be held by their Mother more than you.
   This is natural.
   Don't worry, they will soon learn to enjoy being in your arms.
   One of the ways you can help build this bond is to spend time talking to them.
   Hold them so that they must look in your eyes and just talk to them.
   It doesn't matter what you say.
   Just say whatever comes into your mind.
   It is your voice that your child needs to hear.
   Read them books if you cannot think of anything to say.
   
4. Take your new baby with you on short errands around town.
   Get used to people seeing you with a baby.
   This can be weird for new Dads, but it will help you to get used to the idea of being a Father.
   It will also give your wife a break from the constant burden of childcare.
   
5. Listen to advice, but develop your own style of being a Dad.
   Other parents may have good advice, but the best part of being a Dad is getting to be the Dad you want to be.
   Have fun and be yourself.
   That is the person your kids will need you to be.
   

I hope this list has been helpful! Don't worry if you make a few mistakes.
You are in for the greatest experience of your life!