If you want to discover how to get your ex back and uncover if he has serious commitment issues, this article is just for you.
Family experiences and lifestyle strongly influence our attitudes and behavior in relating to the opposite sex.
The same applies to the way we deal with conflict in our lives.
To uncover if he has commitment issues, you have to take a step back and look at how he treats his family and friends and how his previous relationships ended.
His Past.
If your man has a less than perfect relationship with his family and friends, a good look into his past is called for.
The problems that he has witnessed with his own parents' relationship could turn into problems in your relationship.
Staying alert to destructive patterns can help you avoid them.
His Attitude.
A mature and kind hearted attitude is essential for a long term relationship.
Good communication and positive ways of handling conflict result in good long lasting relationships.
If he is rude to waiters or to people beneath him at work,this may be a sign that he is not relationship ready.
At the start of the relationship he will always show his best side, but it is what you observe over time that truly reflects his attitude.
Compatibility Even if he is gorgeous, if you don't share interests, goals and how you want to spend your time, you might find it hard to keep your relationship going long term.
He might be fantastic husband material in all other aspects, but if he wants to spend his time camping on weekends and you are a party animal, you won't enjoy the time you spend together.
Don't give up on him if his past has been less than perfect.
The important thing is to be honest with each other.
When relationship problems bubble under the surface don't ignore them, talk them over as they arise.
Instead of demanding to know what your man's plans for the future are, try ask him where he would like to be in two to three years time.
That way you will avoid the potential pitfalls and uncover his commitment issues.