Have you met a new guy, and you want to bring him closer to you, and to a relationship? Are you ready to build that potential into a relationship? Do you need to know what the next steps are? Learn to control the pace of the relationship in order to bring him closer to you and to commitment.
First things first: cultivate a friendship.
Before you can take that leap into love, it is often best to get to know him as a friend first.
You need to try to dig underneath the initial attraction to find out if there is really anything deeper.
A friendship will make a solid base for something more serious.
Do your best to get to know him as a person, before you give in to your feelings for your crush.
It feels great to be with someone who seems like no one else on earth.
But, you do need to see him as a human being, with flaws just like anyone else.
Second: don't make him your BFF.
This might seem to contradict the first piece of advice.
But, many women make the mistake of treating men just like their girl friends.
You want to get to know him better, but not to make him listen while you give him too much information.
Guys will not be attracted to a woman if she constantly tells him about her day in excruciating detail.
If you want to bring him closer to you, make your friendship a mutual process of learning about each other.
This doesn't mean telling him everything your coworker said to you that day.
Third: make sure that you are ready before you have sex with him.
I know, I know, you can't keep your hands off of him.
But, don't hop into bed with him if you are risking your heart.
You need to feel comfortable with your relationship first.
If you've met someone who you feel you can share your life with, take the right approach.
You can bring him closer if you follow the right steps to taking your relationship to the next level.