Let's face it, divorce is as common as breathing fresh air is important to our survival.
It is all too easy to give up and run to the divorce courts than it used to be.
Is this a good thing, I am not too sure it is either bad or good but what I do know is that divorce seems easier than trying to work at a marriage and sort any problems there may be out.
All too often we get to a point in a marriage where it seems stale and it has run it's course.
We all at times feel like this, yes all of us even those who have survived fifty years of marriage.
The difference is some people are prepared to give things another go and try and work at there marriage others see divorce as the easy way out often later on regretting not at least giving the marriage one last go.
Even couples with children these days see divorce as an easy option without even considering there children.
Oh they say they have thought of the children and are divorcing for them but is that really the case.
Now I am not saying for one minute that if you have children then you shouldn't consider or even get divorced but all too often in situations where divorce is concerned our thought processes aren't working to there full potential and so sometimes it is necessary to step back and take a breather.
All too often we rush head long into what we think is the right solution to our problems only to later realize we may have made a bit of a boo-boo.
Portioning blame on our partners and refusing to take some responsibility for our own actions is all too common.
Well here it is, "It takes two to Tango", ladies and gentlemen so no matter how much you may think your partner is at fault you need to be able to accept that your to some degree as much to blame in some capacity.
When any marriage hits the rocks it is hard, it bloody hurts like mad and you don't know your a**e from your elbow.
But don't give up hope no matter how dire you may think your relationship may be.
Given the right advice, shown the right techniques, taken in the right direction you can revive your marriage and get that old spark back once again.
OK it may not work for everyone as we are all different and we all do things and think differently.
I suppose it is down to how bad you want to turn back the hands of time and revive those old feelings of love and lust.
But look at it this way, it doesn't matter if you have been married for six months, one year or twenty years, isn't it at least worth a go, surely you owe each other that much.
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