Creating Lasting Attraction Beyond That First Glance - It"s Natural
So there she goes walking by you..
legs up to there, cute little flirt with me pumps on, a mega watt smile, fitted dress in your favorite color..
Oh she must be the one! Your best friend leans over and closes your jaw for you as your mind runs it's mental checklist of possibility..
smart, check, powerful, check, desirable, check..
HOT, yes, yes check! She tosses a glance back your way and you feel mesmerized in the moment and then by a streak of luck you're introduced and within just a few brief moments..
squealing brakes are sliding to a halt, whoa pitter pattering heart..
You're thinking wait, wait ~ she has everything on my list, where's my spark..
OH NO there's no spark, nothing, nada, zip! While she's still sweet to look at..
Where did the attraction go that you thought you should have? And the hardest part..
your friends think you're crazy when you tell them 'I'm just not attracted to her like that' While initially some physical nature of a person may catch our eye, our true long standing attraction takes a little longer than the bat of an eyelash and a turn of the heels to reveal and all the wishing in the world won't get us longing for someone we're just not feeling it for.
Most people find that a likeness in personality means more.
It's not really surprising that people gravitate toward those that have similar values and attitudes..
the characteristics that are noticeable with just a little interaction.
So..
what's a guy (or girl) to do? Instead of going for someone you think you 'should' be attracted to or trying to figure out how to make some certain person attracted to you, look at it from the other side..
who you are naturally attracted to? What qualities do you find naturally attractive in others? We spend a lot of time trying to fix ourselves up and trying to discover the secret of attracting that perfect mate, when we have an inherent natural attractiveness and a natural attraction.
We just have to stop blocking ourselves from having that attraction for someone when it naturally happens.
Push past the social conditioning about what is supposed to attract you, and get in touch with what really does attract you.
In the end, your opinion is the only one that matters, your happiness with someone YOU find irresistible.
legs up to there, cute little flirt with me pumps on, a mega watt smile, fitted dress in your favorite color..
Oh she must be the one! Your best friend leans over and closes your jaw for you as your mind runs it's mental checklist of possibility..
smart, check, powerful, check, desirable, check..
HOT, yes, yes check! She tosses a glance back your way and you feel mesmerized in the moment and then by a streak of luck you're introduced and within just a few brief moments..
squealing brakes are sliding to a halt, whoa pitter pattering heart..
You're thinking wait, wait ~ she has everything on my list, where's my spark..
OH NO there's no spark, nothing, nada, zip! While she's still sweet to look at..
Where did the attraction go that you thought you should have? And the hardest part..
your friends think you're crazy when you tell them 'I'm just not attracted to her like that' While initially some physical nature of a person may catch our eye, our true long standing attraction takes a little longer than the bat of an eyelash and a turn of the heels to reveal and all the wishing in the world won't get us longing for someone we're just not feeling it for.
Most people find that a likeness in personality means more.
It's not really surprising that people gravitate toward those that have similar values and attitudes..
the characteristics that are noticeable with just a little interaction.
So..
what's a guy (or girl) to do? Instead of going for someone you think you 'should' be attracted to or trying to figure out how to make some certain person attracted to you, look at it from the other side..
who you are naturally attracted to? What qualities do you find naturally attractive in others? We spend a lot of time trying to fix ourselves up and trying to discover the secret of attracting that perfect mate, when we have an inherent natural attractiveness and a natural attraction.
We just have to stop blocking ourselves from having that attraction for someone when it naturally happens.
Push past the social conditioning about what is supposed to attract you, and get in touch with what really does attract you.
In the end, your opinion is the only one that matters, your happiness with someone YOU find irresistible.
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