In this article I'll go into depth about being spontaneous and why women see it as such an appealing quality.
Why is being spontaneous an enticing trait to females? Being spontaneous around your date exhibits that you're willing to take a risk.
It provides pleasure to the date, and ultimately, to your relationship.
If you are taking your date out to dinner on an evening where the finest spots won't be entirely reserved, suggest walking around until you both see somewhere where you want to dine.
While it's only a small gesture, if you are consistent with your spontaneity, then it can work out well for you.
In essence, it's like stealing one of the bad boy qualities, and turning it into your own.
females will often be attracted to the bad boy in one way or another, so be spontaneous and use that characteristic to your benefit.
No one likes a regular regime, a regular day, or a normal date.
When you are out on a date, one way to make it much more spontaneous is to adhere to your instinct.
As soon as you have an idea, pursue it.
On top of being spontaneous, you will also keep the date moving, which is essential for a date to go from normal, to great.
Rather than planning the whole night (or day) before it has even started, decide what you do as you go.
The date may have started with getting dinner, but try suggesting a walk afterwards.
Head somewhere where you know there are things to do, and wait for something to leap out at you.
You could walk past a modest coffee house you really like and recommend going there.
This is just an example, but it means that you have gone from dinner, to a walk, to a coffee house.
You have kept the date moving, and you have kept it exciting.
This is what being spontaneous on a date does, and you can do it however you like.
Follow your instinct and she will follow you.
For the most part, on a date it's understood that the male will have some form of strategy for the evening.
You shouldn't be frightened to go out on a whim and recommend something which you just thought of, because if it has the potential to be fun, she will unquestionably come with you.
As long as you're sure about your decisions, she will be too.
Becoming spontaneous will also make the date more entertaining for you, so really, you can't go wrong with it.
On your next date, recommend something you wouldn't typically do and see where it takes the night.
If it went in a different direction than what you thought, but was still fun/more fun, you're on the right path.