Out on the town, walking to work, waiting for the bus.
All of these are great opportunities to meet someone new.
But what to say once you meet them? You, like most people, might not know the best kinds of dating introductions.
Those of us who like to date are very busy people.
Someone trying to talk to us who doesn't know the right thing to say can be a real turn off.
While they are talking about the weather and being boring, we are trying to get out of that conversation as fast as possible.
But, with the right style of introduction, that big "don't" can turn into a very big "do" in no time flat! A successful strategy of dating introductions can make up for almost any shortcoming a potential suitor may have.
The first thing to do is try and find a common ground.
Almost everyone likes a compliment.
When you see someone you want to talk to, don't hesitate to tell them how good they look, or how well they dance.
A compliment puts "the ball in your court" and it starts a conversation quickly.
Another form of introduction is to tell a joke.
Professional speakers agree that starting with a light joke eases the tension, and if you can get someone to laugh it will encourage you, and help build your confidence.
Confidence is the third piece of the introduction puzzle.
Don't say things you don't believe in.
The person you are talking to will probably be able to tell that you are a phony.
Even if your opinion is unpopular, it's better to stick with it and be confident than to change it and look foolish.
Confidence is the swagger in your stride and the cigar in your breast pocket.
Everyone can see it, and they will know you mean business.