Getting a Psychological Edge Over Your Ex Means Everything - Here"s How to Do It!
If you're trying to get your ex back after a breakup, you know that it's not the easiest thing in the world.
In fact, you may find yourself currently locked in a war of wills with your ex.
The bad news is that you have absolutely no chance of winning this struggle head on.
As you're likely experiencing, the harder you try, the quicker things seem to be slipping through your fingers.
But don't be too hard on yourself.
The reason you're finding things so difficult is because your ex holds all the power at the moment.
You have nothing of value to bargain with.
There's nothing you have that they want, and they have everything you want.
This puts you in quite a predicament.
Is it any wonder that every move you make seems to make things worse.
They know they hold the balance of power and it is making them behave rather elitist at the moment.
However, don't be too quick to blame them - this is human nature and you would probably be acting in the same manner if the tables were turned.
So the solution to the problem is to get back some of that power.
But what is the best way to go about this? Well, the first thing you have to do is take away the cause of this power imbalance.
You have to start acting completely opposite to what they expect.
For example: they know that you need them because you keep phoning and texting them telling them how much you miss them and that you still love them.
Stop doing that.
This very minute.
Cut it off at the source and stop fanning the flames.
In fact, you will want to stop every action that could be interpreted as you having feelings for them.
The best way to do this is to completely cut off contact for the time being.
This will ensure that you don't have a moment of weakness.
You can bet that they are going to notice this very quickly.
After having you at their beck and call for all this time, they are not going to know how to handle having the wind taken out of their sails suddenly.
Almost instantly, you are going to feel a power shift.
This can be very liberating.
The result is going to be an ex that you can actually relate to and can talk to without them feeling as though they are better than you.
They are going to be more humble and, thus, open to starting a dialogue with you.
If you are lucky, you may even stir up some of those old familiar feelings.
In any case, it is a far cry from what you had to endure a few days ago.
In fact, you may find yourself currently locked in a war of wills with your ex.
The bad news is that you have absolutely no chance of winning this struggle head on.
As you're likely experiencing, the harder you try, the quicker things seem to be slipping through your fingers.
But don't be too hard on yourself.
The reason you're finding things so difficult is because your ex holds all the power at the moment.
You have nothing of value to bargain with.
There's nothing you have that they want, and they have everything you want.
This puts you in quite a predicament.
Is it any wonder that every move you make seems to make things worse.
They know they hold the balance of power and it is making them behave rather elitist at the moment.
However, don't be too quick to blame them - this is human nature and you would probably be acting in the same manner if the tables were turned.
So the solution to the problem is to get back some of that power.
But what is the best way to go about this? Well, the first thing you have to do is take away the cause of this power imbalance.
You have to start acting completely opposite to what they expect.
For example: they know that you need them because you keep phoning and texting them telling them how much you miss them and that you still love them.
Stop doing that.
This very minute.
Cut it off at the source and stop fanning the flames.
In fact, you will want to stop every action that could be interpreted as you having feelings for them.
The best way to do this is to completely cut off contact for the time being.
This will ensure that you don't have a moment of weakness.
You can bet that they are going to notice this very quickly.
After having you at their beck and call for all this time, they are not going to know how to handle having the wind taken out of their sails suddenly.
Almost instantly, you are going to feel a power shift.
This can be very liberating.
The result is going to be an ex that you can actually relate to and can talk to without them feeling as though they are better than you.
They are going to be more humble and, thus, open to starting a dialogue with you.
If you are lucky, you may even stir up some of those old familiar feelings.
In any case, it is a far cry from what you had to endure a few days ago.
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