When my relationship with my ex broke up, of course like a great many people I thought about how to get my boyfriend back.
The sense of loss was tangible.
There was something missing from my life and I wanted my ex back.
Firstly, I thought 'whether my boyfriend and I really belonged together in the first place'? Because some personalities just can't get along - though two people might love each other, they can still manage to irritate each other for little reasons that neither can understand, but which simply amount to 'personality clash'.
In the case of my boyfriend and I, this was not true.
We were a good match personality-wise, that is why I wanted my boyfriend back.
Our breakup was not due to a slow build up of irritations, but through one major incident.
I figured that it was easier to mend.
I thought about whose fault it was - as it turns out it honestly was not mine.
Well, I called him up in a friendly manner and asked if we could meet.
We did, and got talking - NOT about our relationship, but in a friendly manner, about general things.
And I slowly led up to the subject of our relationship.
I wasn't harsh or critical - I just talked gently, and with understanding.
Pretty soon it became clear that my boyfriend was as eager to get together again as I was.
We began to understand how we could get together again - and now we are, I managed to get my beloved boyfriend back.
Just talking about things calmly is all one might need to put your relationship together again.
Remember, communication is the key to a successful relationship, and very often it is really possible to get your girlfriend or boyfriend back.