5 Phases of Marital Love
For any marriage to be blissful, couples should understand the 5 phases of marital love.
All the phases must manifest in every home, if the home must be a place of love and togetherness.
Phase 1 - Attraction: This is what we call face love.
It involves accepting the outlook of your spouse and be intoxicated by it.
As soon as a man loses interest in the outlook and dressing of his wife, it will affect other phases of love.
Both husband and wife should train themselves to be interested in the outlook of their spouses.
Everybody should also do everything to look nice, handsome and beautiful.
Phase 2 - Emotion: This is what we do refer to as 'mind love'.
It involves giving room for deep affection toward one's spouse.
It is heartfelt love; it's frequency is always very high before wedding, during honey moon and shortly after the wedding.
But most of the time, it doesn't last as couples begin to take each other for granted.
It affects their feelings, and kills the 'mind love'.
Phase 3 - Compulsion Love: It is known as responsibility love.
This is the kind that exists between a man and his wife that makes them stay together and perform their duties to each other even when they are no more attractive to each other and affection is gone.
This is what remain in many marriages; when it depart from home, there is likely to be separation and divorce.
Phase 4 - Passion: This is known as sexual love.
It is the aspect that makes the man to desire to sleep with his wife.
If it exists between unmarried people, it is call lust.
Most of the time wives are the first to lose this face of love.
In fact, it is one of the thing a woman lose when she is unhappy with her husband, thereby leading to sexual denial of her husband.
Phase 5 - Compassion: It is known as God kind of love or agape love.
This love is unusual; it is not base on the outlook, body chemistry, feelings or happenings around us.
It is love that is deep rooted in kindness and acceptance.
It is a sacrificial love.
Unfortunately very few couples got married base on this kind of love; most women based their marriages on emotional love, while men base their on attraction and passion.
Please note that all the five phases of love are needed in your home, if your marriage must colorful.
All the phases must manifest in every home, if the home must be a place of love and togetherness.
Phase 1 - Attraction: This is what we call face love.
It involves accepting the outlook of your spouse and be intoxicated by it.
As soon as a man loses interest in the outlook and dressing of his wife, it will affect other phases of love.
Both husband and wife should train themselves to be interested in the outlook of their spouses.
Everybody should also do everything to look nice, handsome and beautiful.
Phase 2 - Emotion: This is what we do refer to as 'mind love'.
It involves giving room for deep affection toward one's spouse.
It is heartfelt love; it's frequency is always very high before wedding, during honey moon and shortly after the wedding.
But most of the time, it doesn't last as couples begin to take each other for granted.
It affects their feelings, and kills the 'mind love'.
Phase 3 - Compulsion Love: It is known as responsibility love.
This is the kind that exists between a man and his wife that makes them stay together and perform their duties to each other even when they are no more attractive to each other and affection is gone.
This is what remain in many marriages; when it depart from home, there is likely to be separation and divorce.
Phase 4 - Passion: This is known as sexual love.
It is the aspect that makes the man to desire to sleep with his wife.
If it exists between unmarried people, it is call lust.
Most of the time wives are the first to lose this face of love.
In fact, it is one of the thing a woman lose when she is unhappy with her husband, thereby leading to sexual denial of her husband.
Phase 5 - Compassion: It is known as God kind of love or agape love.
This love is unusual; it is not base on the outlook, body chemistry, feelings or happenings around us.
It is love that is deep rooted in kindness and acceptance.
It is a sacrificial love.
Unfortunately very few couples got married base on this kind of love; most women based their marriages on emotional love, while men base their on attraction and passion.
Please note that all the five phases of love are needed in your home, if your marriage must colorful.
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